I absolutely love reading the responses to my interview questions for each month’s peer highlight. It gives me a very special understanding of my fellow writers, an insight that I do not take for granted. Each interview is a gift, and it brings me so much joy to share it with all of you!
I need a new synonym for excited, but since I don’t have one right now (suggestions welcome!) here it is. I am SO excited and so very privileged to present my good friend Kristi Lowe! She is one of the kindest, wittiest, most hilariously observant, and self-deprecatingly delightful people I’ve ever met!
I met Kristi – you guessed it – at the Writer’s Digest conference last year. I was coming out of my pitch slam and wishing the writers going in after me good luck and she stopped me and asked me if I was the person posting positive things in the Facebook group for the conference (I was). In that moment, we were instant friends!
Kristi has been writing her entire life, beginning as many of us did with a sparkly pink diary, including lock, followed by the spiral bound notebooks favored by angsty teens (her words, not mine), and later evolving to blogging as she entered adulthood, motherhood, and marriagehood (trademark Kristi Lowe). Her first inkling that writing would be in her life in more than just a diarist capacity was in the early 90’s, when broiling oneself in a slather of Crisco and Sun-in was considered normal. Her best friend said the exact words that I can remember a friend saying to me: you should write a book.
Now, in addition to her friends, Kristi’s primary audience is “the woman…praying she doesn’t lose her mind somewhere between folding laundry she washed a week ago, listening to the Pitch Perfect soundtrack coming from Princess’s room for the eleventy-hundredth time this week, and ordering pizza (again!) because she forgot to thaw a roast.”
But Kristi’s writing isn’t exclusive. Drawing on life experiences, she is also able to find the right chord with almost anyone. Her writing often includes themes of struggle, redemption, love, faith, and hope – things almost anyone can relate to. Kristi says, “Everyone walks through difficult seasons, and it seems that’s when we feel most alone. Hope is in short supply these days, you know? I’ve got deep joy these days, but man…I remember the dark [days] all too well. So when I write, whether fiction or non-fiction, I want to laugh and cry with you, and always – always – offer hope.”
In addition to writing, Kristi is also an accomplished real estate agent, helping others buy and sell residential property for nine years. As her successes in business increased, her love of writing grew alongside, and Kristi now has the best of both worlds. When someone asks, she says, “I have one toe I the writing world, and the other in real estate, and I’ll happily do both as long as I can. If I’m forced to choose someday, I will. But until that day comes, I’m going to enjoy both.”
I asked Kristi what she was most proud of accomplishing in her writing career, and her answer may come as a surprise. In 2018, she challenged herself to a year without alcohol. A self-proclaimed heavy drinker, Kristi chronicled her journey as a completely sober person. She says, “What began as a challenge by an albeit hungover woman on New Year’s Day, totally flipped the script on my life. I think there’s something in it for many women.” She’s currently pursuing an agent to represent her and her documented journey as she navigates the publishing world.
Kristi also shared this with me about her journey: “No, I wasn’t an alcoholic. I was a heavy drinker, certainly, but not addicted. I haven’t had a drink in 2019 (and, no, that’s no lie). I don’t know if I’ll ever have a drink again. Maybe, maybe not… But lest you worry…the shenanigans still find me. I just wake up without the hangover now! #winning!”
What shenanigans is she talking about? She laughs and says, “It’s those random hilarious things that ya just can’t make up. Like on the Fourth of July when I lit a firecracker and thought it was about to blow (it wasn’t) so I panicked (like a crazy lady) and ran away so fast I tripped and fell into the drainage ditch. Sober. Totally, completely sober. We were all laughing so hard at my epic fall we almost forgot to watch the firework explode!” Considering that my life is just a series of mishaps in between each time I trip over something (or nothing), it’s no wonder Kristi and I are friends.
One of my questions to everyone who I interview for this section is what the person would like others to know about their life outside of writing. Kristi’s answer is so beautiful that I simply cannot paraphrase it. “I have been married to John for 18 years and we have two children, Meredith (15) and Cameron (13). Those three are, far and away, the greatest gifts ever. We live in West Texas where the cotton grows, dirt blows, and sometimes at night we mistake oil derricks for constellations on the horizon. But man, nobody has sunsets like we do. Open skies where you can see for miles. I love this place and these people.” Anyone want to take a road trip to Kristi’s house with me?
When asked what her mantra is, Kristi goes immediately to a verse in Galatians 5:1: “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” Kristi adds, “I memorized this in 1999, during a particularly challenging season of life (that’s code for, my life was a dumpster fire). I had known and loved Jesus for a long time at that point, but that verse was a nugget of hope that changed the trajectory of my life.”
If nothing else, Kristi is a source of positivity, honesty, and perseverance. Knowing her makes me happy and grateful, and I’m so lucky to get to see her next month! This talented woman’s humor and hope remind me, and I’m certain everyone she comes into contact with, how wonderfully joyful being human is.
You can connect with Kristi on Twitter @KristiGLowe, on Facebook at Kristi Lowe, and by email at KristiGLowe@gmail.com. Her website, www.KristiLowe.com, is currently undergoing a makeover, but is still active and worth checking out as well.
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